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Considering the Impacts on Children and Society of "LesbiGay" Parenting

Lynn D. Wardle
Professor of Law, J. Reuben Clark Law School, Brigham Young University, Provo, UT 84602.

Planned lesbigay parenthood offers a veritable 'social laboratory' of family diversity in which scholars could fruitfully examine not only the acquisition of sexual and gender identity, but the relative effects on children of the gender and number of their parents as well as the implications of diverse biosocial routes to parenthood.

I. INTRODUCTION-THE NEED FOR INFORMATION, ANALYSIS, AND DIALOGUE

The need for serious, extensive, and thoroughly-informed consideration of the potential effects upon children and society of parenting by persons involved in ongoing homosexual relationships has never been greater. The number of persons opting to live together as homosexual couples is increasing, and the number of children being raised by same-sex couples is growing significantly.

At the same time, legal policies regarding parenting in all of its forms (including adoption, the use of ART, childbearing out of wedlock, custody, and visitation) are being challenged and revised to deal with these social phenomena and with the demand to accommodate and give homosexual parenting legal status and rights equivalent to the established parental status and rights of married heterosexual couples.

 Policy decisions of such profound significance for society, parents, and future generations should be informed not only by complete factual information and policy analysis, but also by the fullest discussion of all dimensions of all of the normative issues and from persons from all responsible disciplines, life experiences, social perspectives, and policy viewpoints.

The growing movement to give legal recognition and endorsement to parenting by same-sex couples has at least three dimensions.

First, it is political, part of the growing gay rights movement which since Stonewall has become of significant social and political force to give full and equal legal rights to homosexual lifestyles. Second, it is partly social, reflecting changes in our society concerning family living arrangements in which children are being raised. Third, it is, at least in part, a logical extension of broadening of legal recognition of parenting arrangements that are "alternative" to the historic ideal of a mother and father married to each other. Thus, in the area of adoption, which is the "gold standard" of parenting (and which is the subject of most of my research and writing about this issue, including in this piece), we have seen the law first grant adoption to married couples, then to single adults who were related to the child, then to unrelated single adults, and to unmarried couples, so extending adoption to include same-sex couples may seem like a logical extension of the permissive trend.

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